Uche Ogbodo who is heavily pregnant and expecting her first
child has confirmed to SDK that her ‘marriage’ which we assumed was solemnized traditionally
in October 2013 has packed up. Uche said the relationship was all based on lies
and she got to know more about him when she was already pregnant. Such a sad
story, find the interview after the cut.
Hello Uche,i have a few quick questions for you.I heard
your barely a year old marriage has crashed,is this true?
.. Well that may be
true but what isn't true is that it wasn't really marriage yet because it
wasn't fully formalised, we were still in the process of formalising it when
all hell broke loose, so I was merely Engaged to be married to Ato Ubby.
It was just an introduction?why didn’t you clear that
impression all this while?
…I just felt there was no need to do so because the wedding
plans was to follow shortly,unfortunately it didn’t because things didn’t work
out the way it should.i walked into a no-win situation.
What happened?
This is really a hard
question to answer, but all I can say Is that barely one month into the
Engagement and in the process of planning a formal wedding I realised I had
made the greatest mistake of my life.The Foundation of the Union was based On lies
and Deceit..shocking lies.we had been dating for a almost year and i thought i
knew it all but nothing prepared me for what unfolded.
Is he married already?
...No,he isnt married to anyone else
You got pregnant in the process?
On the verge of trying to salvage the situation I found out
I was expecting a child. I kept quiet to the Rumours Making the rounds because
I was left with the option of thinking for my child and trying to salvage a
dead situation but now I have finally made up my mind to break off the
Engagement and my Reasons are Irreconcilable...
Uche so you are saying you never got married and the
engagement is off?
I just want to be
left alone to take care of my Child. Stella I wasn't married I was engaged to
be married but as things stand now, the engagement is officially broken due to
irreconcilable differences and since I am having my baby soon, my Doctors has
advised me to rest as my health and that of my Baby is the most important thing
right now..
So you are the one walking away and not him?you want to go
into details?
..Yes i am the one walking out on the pack of lies,I am not
going to pretend because i want to be married,i am not desperate and i would
rather swallow my pride and accept i made a big mistake than forge ahead in
lies.I am sorry i cannot go into details because i do not want to trade words
or run my ex down because he is the father of the child i am carrying.
I am sorry if keeping quiet misled people into my status was
already married.
The excitement of looking forward to birthing my child kinda
numbs the shock and disappointment but i will be fine.
So,after the introduction,the planned marriage was dead on
arrival?
…exactly and all this while,we have been trying to settle
the issues, thats probably how you got hear of it.
Here's wishing you all the best Uche, we look forward to
hearing the good news. God bless you.
..Thank you Stella for calling to confirm.thanks to everyone
who has been understanding on this...for now,let me channel all my energy into
positivity for my baby.